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Magical powers available understanding Opposites

There is an opposite to everything, we are all living in opposite of something.

In - Out
Up - Down
Love - hate
Old - young

Peace - war
Rich - poor
Male - Female
Right - Wron

As humans we are all blessed with an equal gift of "Life". Life is everything good, it's not an existence to feel bad. That means that each and every one of us truly only wants to live a happy, loving, peaceful life. Understanding that reality and you can then learn how to read the minds of your opponent, those you have conflict with.

You experience conflict because YOU are not living in perfect alignment with the correct "Opposite" side of your purpose. The conflict is caused by a mirror reflection of your thoughts and focus. You are "Life", your purpose and existence is all about happiness, love and peace and you hold responsibility for all focused attention on Your Conflicts. Recognize your own thoughts and focus that sustain the conflict and magically you will find the repeated pattern of that conflict break and you'll never experience it again.

Apples & Oranges
If a man "Loves" Apples and the women of his dreams "Loves" Oranges, conflicts could arise if this man constantly ships hundreds of apples to the women of his dreams if she hates Apples while "Loving" oranges. She does not feel all the love this man truly wants to give her and he is not feeling great about all the efforts he puts in to showering his love with his gifts.

All conflicts want something from you, you feel you must give up something important so you are stuck in "Conflict Mode". There is a "Root Problem" you need to discover and correct your own path. It's simply about making decisions about which side of all Opposites you want to experience each moment of your life.

Love & Hate

If you decide you want to live an existence of Love over Hate then you must base all decisions, you must give and accept only Loving actions in every moment of your life. You can't jump into hate when it's convenient, when you have a good story of hate, fear and reasons to do so. Whenever "hate" shows up, recognize it as a "Root Problem". Take responsibility and ask that problem, with love, what it wants and with love find the solution.

Hate often times is nothing more then a road sign towards your purpose. Rejection is direction. We are like lemmings walking into brick walls over and over expecting to be able to walk through it one day. We aren't aware that our thoughts sustain that brick wall and only through love can that brick wall break down.

Hate drives us towards judgement of others and often times it's wrong. Through

 

out history we've heard the words "Don't judge a man until you walk a mile in his shoes". We hate a child killer, hate sexual predators but has anyone stepped back and wondered what experiences

did this "child Killer" this "sexual predator" have to make him take these actions? Our need to stay in hate has us unaware that It Is Us who create these killers, these sexual predators because without love for the 2-year-old child (victim) he becomes the next generation of killers and sexual predators.

All criminals started off with the gift of "Life", at some point they became victims and their rage, anger, frustrations is left misunderstood manifesting into horrific realities. When you see a child, a teenage not acting appropriately, that child is lacking love, understanding and direction. It starts in your neighbourhood with the children you complain about. Love them and you heal your communities.

To choose a life filled with "Love" holds great responsibility and courage. It's not an easy road, but it's an important path we all MUST take. We are all connected, we all affect each other in our sustained reality. Globally we can see the effects one Country can have over the other. Our need to experience HATE is felt throughout the world and our decision Personally HOLDS the same powers if you decide.

Our Hates only need to be transformed into our "Love's. All opposites work the same way. For every "Hate" you have is a sign of what you love. It's what you stand for, it's your values, things that are important to you. Don't Hate, your "Hate's", love them because they are valuable messages to you in living your purpose. Make a list of all your hates, if new ones come up each day pay attention to them. On the OPPOSITE side of that hate list, ask why you hate, what is lacking that you'd love to experience. You then need to realize and become one with the "Reality" that you're full potential holds the ability to achieve that experience.

It's a tough decision to live in one's Full Potential but the wonders of life, everything you could wish, want and desire can be experienced in making that simple decision of which opposite side you want to experience "Life". In Reality by giving up everything you hate, you create and sustain a reality of everything you love. Big Decision…….

Your opponent has hates they are more then pleased to share with you. Without getting caught up in the "Story", recognize the hate and find out the Love that is lacking, what makes your opponent feel loved through you rather then the hate through you. It could be as simple as giving apples instead of oranges, which you are more then happy to give up in exchange for all the oranges in the world.

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