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What are Your Core Problems
How To Fix Them.

We all have behavioural patterns. We sleep on the same side of a bed each night, we might exercise every morning, and we might hunt for the first cigarette of the day. We do things in patterns, one day's pattern will look very much like the next day's pattern. Once you recognize a regular attraction to problems causing similar negative feelings to be experienced, you've recognized a "Core Problem".

Core Problems can also be located in each of your daily complaints. Never before can "Complaints or Excuses" be look upon as such treasures. Our Complaints and our Excuses will be your ticket to an amazing life experience. All your "Core Problems" all your "Complaints" all your "Excuses" are nothing more then your cocoon of development. You are the perfect Pearl and all your problems, complaints and excuses are the irritations to make the whole thing possible.

Through an understanding of Holodynamics, our problems can actually speak to us. If you choose to live in your Full Potential self, you can ask it any question and know without doubt the response will be factual. If you are angry or frustrated you can ask your problem what it wants and it will still respond to you but you won't be able to understand while in this state of mind. It takes a creative, understanding, clear mind to relate to what the problem wants and how best to feed it.

I have always had sleeping problems, I couldn't shut down my brain because of all the thoughts I enjoyed having. I asked this problem what it wants and the response was "You need to be perfect". Only in my Full Potential Self could I understand the logical shift I need to make in deciding "Not To Be Perfect", to allow my mistakes, to accept who I am and live life as it comes. If I responded out of frustration, I might have understood the problem requires me to actually BE PERFECT and I'd be feeding it food to increase the harm it would have on my life.

Recognizing your problem, define it, put a size to it and then ask it what it wants. Try to go back as far as you can to the beginning, when this problem first showed up to gain full understanding. The pattern

 

 

might be similar in past generation` and you are carrying the same DNA, the same thought processes from past times and yet we live in the future offering futuristic solutions.

When you were a child, even though you had parents making up all your decisions, you actually where making up plenty of decisions on your own. You decided to listen, to run away, to scream, to do your homework or if you fell asleep at night. You always had a goal, an agenda and you created rules, values and thought process that got you what you wanted. As you developed your world changed and those rules, values and thought processes aren't needed but rather do more harm then good. You then gain an education and further learn how to get what you want yet you fall back on the rules, values and thought process created when you were a child.

Once you find your "Core Problem", you recognize when it first started, how did you feel, what were your thoughts? How you felt, the thoughts you had formed rules, values and beliefs that has been repeating it's self over and over until you transform new rules, values and beliefs.

Look at this problem outside of yourself, ask it what it wants and then find a way to give it. Maybe it wants to believe in yourself, maybe it wants you to have respect for yourself, it can be something strange and weird but trust it will be the truth. If you don't know how to believe in yourself, how to respect yourself, just you being aware of what you need, life will magically show you the way if you stay in your Full Potential with the aid of Bottled Intentions.

Knowing the answers is only the beginning, the next step is to build and sustain a new reality. It takes approximately 21 days to form a new belief system. If you talked with this problem, checked in with the child (or age at which things turned bad) and ask it how it's doing, what do you need or give it encouragement 3 times a day you will create a new reality and form new beliefs, rules and values that create the life you desire.

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